Newsletter..!

22 September, 2013

We DP students are given the work to make a CAS newsletter. We all had to contribute our thoughts and ideas into making it. We all published our work in there.
I wrote an article on 'Homosexuality in India'. I like writing. I express myself and my thoughts better by writing them down. I realized my strengths and also realized that if I work harder, I will be able to express my thoughts through writing better. So this is my contribution the the newsletter:
                    
                  Homosexuality in India

Homosexuality is a taboo in India. Indian society looks down upon homosexuality and terms it as 'un-natural'. My question is 'WHY?'. India is a democratic nation with numerous religions and cultures. Why cant the culture of Homosexuality be accepted here? Is it wrong to fall in love with a person of the same gender? Is it a crime to share a bond of trust, faith and have emotional/physical intimacy with the person of the same sex?

Indian society refuses to talk openly about any kind of sexuality for the matter of fact. But recently many incidents have come into the light which inspires the homosexuals population in India and has brought in them the confidence of accepting themselves.

Usha Yadav and Shilpi Gupta are two women in Illahabad who are in love with each other. Usha is not ashamed and does not hesitate to talk about her homosexuality. She believes that she is unique and is made differently. She confesses that Shilpi understands her and loves her deeply. But Shilpi's family was not ready to accept their relationship, thus they both ran away. Police found both of them when Shipil's family filed a case against Usha, blaming her for the abduction of their daughter. Usha is still standing strong and fighting for her love. She not planning on giving up on her relationship anytime soon. 

Many individuals turn to Homosexuality because they somewhere in their life receive a trauma from the opposite sex. Like in the case of Taniya Chauhan and Jaya Varma, who now have tied the knot by vedic rituals. When Taniya was a little girl, her father abandoned her and her mother. She was hurt and distressed. And as she grew up, the hatred for her father grew too. She somewhere started to generate hatred against the whole male community. On the other hand, Jaya's little sister was raped and murdered by some men in her village. Here trust and faith in men from that day was shattered. Both of them couldn't have a relationship with men as there was no trust in the relationship. 

Then both of them found each other and are happily married.

Another homosexual couple, Dr. Nari Rajat and Nurse Anjani Rajat are married to each other and are planning to adopt a little baby girl. Both of them are very much in love and share a strong emotional bond. Homosexuality is not just liking a person who has the same body, its about having the feeling of love for that person. All the emotional that are experienced in a heterosexual relationships are also the same that are experienced in a homosexual relationship. 

Section 377 of the Indian Penal Code criminalized homosexuality in India. This law was challenged. But it did it no good. India law still considers homosexuality as a crime. 

The LGBT (lesbians, gays, bisexual, transexuals) community in India is slowly becoming more and more confident. In Mumbai, there are night clubs who organize special parties for LGBT's. Also, many gay pride parades are also being carried on the streets of Mumbai and Delhi. 

Novelist R. Raj Rao, who is a homosexual himself, says "I just wanted to be accepted by the society. I am not different from other people, its just that I love men".

When I see these people, I see hope. I see hope for the future of the LGBT community of India. Homosexuals are not the different from the normal people. Different sexual preferences doesn't define who or what you are. And it is not a reason for being treated differently or as an outcast. Indian Society needs to open up and discuss issues like this. And also stop treating Homosexuality as a taboo. Because they are not different.

Till next time :)